Invitation wording

Saying what follows the ceremony

The last line on an invitation tells guests what happens after the ceremony, so they know whether to eat first and what shoes to wear. It should say what there will be, in the voice of the rest of the card.

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Traditional

P&E Priya & Etienne REQUEST THE PLEASURE OF YOUR COMPANY AT THEIR MARRIAGE SATURDAY 12 JUNE 2027 WILTSHIRE

Priya & Etienne
request the pleasure of your company
at their marriage

The invitation proper, then the stock last line, “Dinner and dancing to follow”, at the very bottom, under the date and the place. Still the clearest: it tells guests to come hungry and in shoes they can dance in.

Warm

P&E Priya & Etienne INVITE YOU TO CELEBRATE THEIR MARRIAGE WITH DINNER AND DANCING TILL LATE SATURDAY 12 JUNE 2027 WILTSHIRE

Priya & Etienne
invite you to celebrate their marriage
with dinner and dancing till late

Says what the evening is for inside the sentence, so nothing has to follow the date. “Till late” is a promise guests like to read.

Modern

P&E Priya & Etienne ARE GETTING MARRIED. DINNER, THEN DANCING. SATURDAY 12 JUNE 2027 WILTSHIRE

Priya & Etienne
are getting married.
Dinner, then dancing.

The news, then the plan. Guests read it as a schedule, which is what it is.

What people ask

Is “reception to follow” the same thing?
It is the older, vaguer phrase. “Dinner and dancing to follow” tells guests far more.
There is no dinner, only drinks and dancing.
Say so: “Drinks and dancing to follow.” Guests eat beforehand if they know.
Should the times go on the card?
By convention the ceremony time does, with the date. The rest belongs on the website, where it can change.

Last checked 4 October 2026.

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